Traditionally, the rehearsal dinner is hosted by the groom's parents. You can either have a more intimate party with your immediate family and the wedding party, or you can have a larger affair and invite out-of-town guests that need to arrive early. Either way, be sure to include your clergyperson (and guest) and other people with roles in the wedding (and guests).

The rehearsal dinner is often the first time many of your guests will meet each other, and it is helpful to use nametags and/or place cards. Plan your seating so that your guests enjoy the company of those at their table, and will also get to meet new people.

The bridal couple and their immediate family generally sit together at the front or focal table. The wedding party can be seated with the bridal couple or seated among your other family members and special guests.

The rehearsal dinner is often the time for the groom's father to make his formal toast to the couple. It's also an excellent time for the couple to give attendants their gifts, especially the gifts that are to be worn by the wedding party in the ceremony.

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